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Your Master

According to the Internet, Michael Jordan practiced basketball six hours a day. Sergei Rachmaninoff practiced piano for at least four hours a day, every day, until his death in 1943. Stephen King’s typical routine is to write for four hours straight every single day.  Simone Biles typically trains for 6–7 hours per day at gymnastics. These people are considered to be among the greatest ever at their respective art or sport. But when it comes to how much time we spend each day practicing mindfulness and mastering ourselves, how much time do we actually dedicate to it? For many people, no time at all. 

What if you were to practice being mindful all the time about the state of your own thoughts and emotions? Would mastering your own thoughts and emotions really be possible without practice? Would Michael Jordan have been as good as he was at basketball without practice? Of course not!

The problem is, it never even enters most people’s minds to even try to master their thoughts and emotions. But if you’re not the master of your emotions, then your emotions are a master over you! They will beat you down like a strong storm, wave after wave, making you toss and turn out of control—out of a state of peace. Out of a state of self-mastery.

Why should your own thoughts and emotions be a source of pain, suffering, and anxiety for you? If you are in control of yourself, then why don’t you choose happiness, peace, and joy instead? If you’re not feeling joy all the time, who is in control—you, or your emotions?

So today, be mindful. If you feel yourself becoming anxious or depressed, remember that you are in control of yourself, that you are the master of your emotions. Talk to yourself in a positive way, every moment of the day.  Practice it with as much dedication as a professional artist or athlete would, until it becomes second nature to you, and you only think and feel positive, joyful thoughts.

Practice becoming a master of your own thoughts and emotions. Because if you don’t, they will become a master over you.

A Path to Happiness

A Path to Happiness

–     Understanding your mind, your thoughts, and your will is essential in understanding yourself

–     You are responsible for yourself.  It is up to you and no one else what you think and how you feel at any given moment

–     Know and understand that you have the power to experience and maintain joyful and peaceful thoughts all the time

–     Observe your mind and thought processes

–     Understand your mind and thought processes

–     Decide what you want and why

–     Decide a number of goals that you want more than anything else

–     Set realistic goals in regards to your mental/emotional/spiritual self and work towards realizing those goals

–     Incorporate your goals into a philosophy and practice it, using constant observation to filter everything in daily life (thoughts, emotions, experiences) through your philosophy and tools

–     Learn the tool of “I want (place goal here) more than anything else”

–     Find methods and techniques to help keep your mind clear, beautiful, and on track towards realizing your goals

–    Take time to evaluate your progress, understanding that a seed doesn’t grow into a flower overnight, but remain open to the reality that there are times when certain goals and mind frames can materialize and solidify rapidly or even instantly, like the flick of a switch

–    Take life one moment at a time, one thought at a time.  You, and you alone, are responsible for the thoughts that occupy your mind at any given moment

–     Continue to observe yourself, improve yourself, and practice your philosophy

–     Share what you have learned with others

‒ Excerpted from More Than Anything Else: Deciding What You Want the Most in Life by Adam Soto

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A Wonderful World

     “Imagine a world in which every person, from a young age, was taught that they had the power to control and harmonize their own mind and live at peace with themselves and those around them.  Wouldn’t that be a wonderful world?”

‒ Excerpted from More Than Anything Else: Deciding What You Want the Most in Life by Adam Soto

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Mature Into a Happy, Positive, and Fulfilled Person

     “One of the problems in life is that from a very young age we are taught by the examples of others that it is okay to indulge in anger, self-pity, anxiety, and negative thinking―that it is, in fact, normal to do so!  That it’s a part of what it means to be human!  But nothing could be further from the truth!  That’s not the way that a human life needs to be at all!  By practicing a philosophy of happiness, a person can escape from these kinds of self-defeating ways of thinking and mature into a happy, positive, and fulfilled person.”

‒ Excerpted from More Than Anything Else: Deciding What You Want the Most in Life by Adam Soto

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How You Will Respond

     “You have the power to direct the flow of thoughts that go through your mind, to decide which attitudes and ideas you have and how you will respond emotionally to anything that happens in your life.”

‒ Excerpted from More Than Anything Else: Deciding What You Want the Most in Life by Adam Soto

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Philosophy and Spirituality

     “Philosophy and spirituality isn’t just about accepting someone else’s ideas; philosophy and spirituality are meant to be lived and experienced!”

‒ Excerpted from More Than Anything Else: Deciding What You Want the Most in Life by Adam Soto

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Grow and Evolve

     “It is important in life that we continue to grow and evolve towards our goals, for such evolution is usually accompanied by feelings of joy, contentment, and satisfaction.”

‒ Excerpted from More Than Anything Else: Deciding What You Want the Most in Life by Adam Soto

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Analyze Your Desires

     “Analyze your desires as they are happening, and choose the way that meets your goals the best.  Practice this method constantly, and happiness will surely follow.”

‒ Excerpted from More Than Anything Else: Deciding What You Want the Most in Life by Adam Soto

Golden Rule Independent Publications © 2022

Evaluate Yourself Regularly

     “Take some time regularly to evaluate yourself and see how well you are developing towards your goals.  This kind of self-evaluation is a must-have ingredient for any person on the path to enlightenment, but it is only helpful if you are completely honest with yourself about everything.”

‒ Excerpted from More Than Anything Else: Deciding What You Want the Most in Life by Adam Soto

Golden Rule Independent Publications © 2022